Extraverts Say the Darndest Things

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Research has suggested for a long time that Extraverts rely on some words more than others. However, the findings have been inconsistent. Researchers at Nanyang Technological University in Singapore looked at the subject again, using more than 80,000 participants and their words. The study, published in the Journal of Research in Personality, suggests a small correlation between Extraverts and favored words. They lean a little heavier on positive emotion words (like “happy” and “love”) and social process words (like “chat” and “join”).

And this research likely surprises nobody. But research is often designed to verify what is commonly believed but not necessarily proven. Since Extraverts are often energized by other people, it makes sense that they would use social process words, which describe what they regularly do. In all likelihood, they also share a preference for positive emotion words with Feeling personality types, who probably use both positive and negative emotion words more than others do.

Even so, before those of us who love studying personality types get too excited, the study also finds that the correlates are “small in magnitude.” This means that the words are subtle and not easily noticed in everyday speech, unless the laserlike focus of a research group is looking for them. It’s unlikely that we can utilize word usage alone as an Extravert detector. But there are other ways to spot them in the wild. The finding does, however, reinforce the idea of Extraversion and helps solidify its definition even more.

This makes me wonder what other personality traits could be associated with specific words. With 80,000 subjects, this study may be hard to imitate with every trait, but you can bet we’re thinking of other ways to do it.

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In the meantime, it might be fun to get your input. What are some words or phrases related to your personality that pop up often in your conversations? For example, as an Advocate (INFJ), I might use “what if,” “should,” “right,” “wrong,” “on my own,” and so on. In the comments below, include your personality type and your choices for words that might be a staple in your vocabulary. If you don’t know your personality type, you can take our free test here.

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The word that I usually use: "should I", "am I wrong?" I love to add emoji in my reply text, Idk why I do not want others to have a misunderstanding when they are reading my text. Because text is just a text, we don't know the tone and face expression of that person when texting someone/ However, sometimes I find it is a troublesome to do that all the time. I afraid that they will be annoyed if I put too much emoji. uhuhu such a complicated person I am.
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Oh yeah, same for me with the emoji thing! Recently I found myself adding an emoji after every single sentence that I wrote, I tried to lessen my use of it but I just became uncomfortable because I thought someone might take what I said the wrong way.
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Well for starters I noticed I say "awww" a lot. Next thing is I say the words "explain please" or "what do you mean" a lot because I find it necessary to know exactly what someone is trying to say. I used to jump into conclusions a lot before but realised that made my conversations messy, so I made a conscious effort to change that. I'm not really sure of how that relates to being a campaigner but I believe it does.
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And the word "cute!" I can hardly have a conversation without using the word "cute"
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I guess I am somewhat similar to you about asking people to explain more. Because I also tend to draw a conclusion (hahah because I believed I can understand people better). But I also afraid that I may misinterpret their intention and get ahead myself.
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I find myself starting my sentences with "I feel that..."instead of "I think that..." quite often. Maybe it's a language thing (I speak Spanish) or maybe it's a Feeler thing?
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That would require some exploring whether or not that is commonplace in Spanish. As a first approximation I'd say it is a Feeler thing, but I have to admit that I don't know about the peculiarities and intricacies of Spanish, though, to be able to properly assess that.
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Words that I frequently use are: Hypothetically, Metaphorically, wrong, why, how, theoretically and a few swear words. The phrases that I frequently use are: You are wrong, Leave me alone, Shut up(along with some swear words), High level of stupidity, I'm not arguing, I'm just explaining my point
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Lol I admire you.
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Sometimes I am too lazy to use emojis in my texts
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I also tend to use a lot of big words in my speech which can confuse people (-.-“
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I love using big words just to confuse people!