Extraverts Say the Darndest Things

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Research has suggested for a long time that Extraverts rely on some words more than others. However, the findings have been inconsistent. Researchers at Nanyang Technological University in Singapore looked at the subject again, using more than 80,000 participants and their words. The study, published in the Journal of Research in Personality, suggests a small correlation between Extraverts and favored words. They lean a little heavier on positive emotion words (like “happy” and “love”) and social process words (like “chat” and “join”).

And this research likely surprises nobody. But research is often designed to verify what is commonly believed but not necessarily proven. Since Extraverts are often energized by other people, it makes sense that they would use social process words, which describe what they regularly do. In all likelihood, they also share a preference for positive emotion words with Feeling personality types, who probably use both positive and negative emotion words more than others do.

Even so, before those of us who love studying personality types get too excited, the study also finds that the correlates are “small in magnitude.” This means that the words are subtle and not easily noticed in everyday speech, unless the laserlike focus of a research group is looking for them. It’s unlikely that we can utilize word usage alone as an Extravert detector. But there are other ways to spot them in the wild. The finding does, however, reinforce the idea of Extraversion and helps solidify its definition even more.

This makes me wonder what other personality traits could be associated with specific words. With 80,000 subjects, this study may be hard to imitate with every trait, but you can bet we’re thinking of other ways to do it.

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In the meantime, it might be fun to get your input. What are some words or phrases related to your personality that pop up often in your conversations? For example, as an Advocate (INFJ), I might use “what if,” “should,” “right,” “wrong,” “on my own,” and so on. In the comments below, include your personality type and your choices for words that might be a staple in your vocabulary. If you don’t know your personality type, you can take our free test here.

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INTP (Logician) personality type illustrated as a man with dark hair and neutral expression in a portrait style.
As an INTP: "Technically . . ." "No." "It could happen." "Probably not." "How interesting." "That's quite odd."
INTP (Logician) personality type illustrated as a woman with purple hair wearing glasses, holding up a small flask with purple liquid.
In addition: "Wait a minute!( I say it every time when I procrastinate lol)" "Why/What if?"
ENFP (Campaigner) personality type illustrated in a portrait style.
~As a campaigner~ WooOw I had NO IdeaAa ( in an extremely sarcastic tone) I'm tired I cant do this shut up I did a thing my brains are not braining Why nooooot
ENFP (Campaigner) personality type illustrated as a woman with green hair smiling enthusiastically while waving with a backpack partially visible.
ENFP-A OMG Are you ok?!( I feel like I say this at least 4 times a day) Im so sorry Guess what I did (typically I say this when I'm excited about something) Im so done rn Ummm... Yeah ofc!
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INFP-T I don't know Imagine... Maybe????????? Can you not talk to me? (trying so hard to not make it sound rude) lol Sorry... (overapologising is a thing for me)
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and “Why not?” :/
ISTJ (Logistician) personality type illustrated as a woman with teal hair holding a small scale of justice.
ESTP: "bruh" "what" "weirdo" "bleep" (like the actual word bleep) "schadenfreude" (for intelligence purposes) "per se" "technically" "Yeah, no" "I don't care"
ENTP (Debater) personality type illustrated in a portrait style.
my estp friend uses bruh ten times a day