Extraverts Say the Darndest Things

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Research has suggested for a long time that Extraverts rely on some words more than others. However, the findings have been inconsistent. Researchers at Nanyang Technological University in Singapore looked at the subject again, using more than 80,000 participants and their words. The study, published in the Journal of Research in Personality, suggests a small correlation between Extraverts and favored words. They lean a little heavier on positive emotion words (like “happy” and “love”) and social process words (like “chat” and “join”).

And this research likely surprises nobody. But research is often designed to verify what is commonly believed but not necessarily proven. Since Extraverts are often energized by other people, it makes sense that they would use social process words, which describe what they regularly do. In all likelihood, they also share a preference for positive emotion words with Feeling personality types, who probably use both positive and negative emotion words more than others do.

Even so, before those of us who love studying personality types get too excited, the study also finds that the correlates are “small in magnitude.” This means that the words are subtle and not easily noticed in everyday speech, unless the laserlike focus of a research group is looking for them. It’s unlikely that we can utilize word usage alone as an Extravert detector. But there are other ways to spot them in the wild. The finding does, however, reinforce the idea of Extraversion and helps solidify its definition even more.

This makes me wonder what other personality traits could be associated with specific words. With 80,000 subjects, this study may be hard to imitate with every trait, but you can bet we’re thinking of other ways to do it.

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In the meantime, it might be fun to get your input. What are some words or phrases related to your personality that pop up often in your conversations? For example, as an Advocate (INFJ), I might use “what if,” “should,” “right,” “wrong,” “on my own,” and so on. In the comments below, include your personality type and your choices for words that might be a staple in your vocabulary. If you don’t know your personality type, you can take our free test here.

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Besides casual swearing I notice I tend to use “because” quite a lot. I also use words like “for frick sake!”, “are you flipping kidding me?” and “you tool!” when I get upset.
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When it comes to words, certain habits make themselves known. Oh, and it depends on who I'm speaking to. Same for texts and emails and basically every way I communicate. In this period of time, I use "dude" and "bruh" a lot. I don't know why - they just pop out when I'm casually talking with my brother. Well... When I email/chat with my friends and peers (those I am comfortable enough with), I tend to write "mmm" a lot, which can mean several things: 1. "I'm not interested in what you're saying right now but I don't want to hurt your feelings so I'm going noncommittal and acknowledging it but not checking it out." This is my main reason to write "mmm". 2. "I agree with you and will proceed to think on my own for a little bit." 3. "I don't know what to say." or "I don't have anything to say about that." 4. "This conversation just dropped out and I'd like to keep it going but I don't have anything to add." When it comes to peers I'm not comfortable writing casually with or figures of authority (teachers!), I become formal (kind of like I am now). I capitalize my i's and dot my sentences and add commas. If I'm comfortable, my syntax will drop to "hi is there something you'd like to say cause i don't have anything to tell you". But yeah. There you go, a detailed explanation of my syntax and diction.
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The words that I use is • I’m fine - when I have nothing much to say. • Swear words - either I’m upset or for jokes. • You can’t do that - when someone is about to screw up • Do you have any evidence?! - when someone accuses me of being sus in Among us.
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I often use: Seriously!? *outraged/disturbed by lack of knowledge face* Idiot NO What do you think? *sarcastically* Ugh Why do I even bother Go away Leave me alone Why must you be such an idiot :)
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Also ‘technically’
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I often say things like “I’m sorry” or “I guess” or “I don’t know.” I’ve noticed I apologise a lot, and that I’m often not very certain or confident with my words or actions, often asking people if something is okay and double checking I’m doing something right. I saw this with another INFP, where we also use a lot of casual speak instead of choosing to be formal, I’m being a bad example here. Overall I’m not super confident with what I’m doing. A friend has told me that I also say things like “lmao” or just chuckle a lot to things? I’m not sure how to exactly explain it, but it’s like a very minor laugh. Also, I tend to use words like “epic” or “rad” a lot. Just a lot of odd words to describe things as I sometimes find using “cool” repetitive and boring. I also tend to avoid words like “cute” just because they can give off the wrong impression or just have connotations i don't mean.