INFJ Personality (“The Advocate”)

The INFJ personality type is very rare, making up less than one percent of the population, but they nonetheless leave their mark on the world. As Diplomats, they have an inborn sense of idealism and morality, but what sets them apart is the accompanying Judging (J) trait – INFJs are not idle dreamers, but people capable of taking concrete steps to realize their goals and make a lasting positive impact.

INFJs tend to see helping others as their purpose in life, but while people with this personality type can be found engaging rescue efforts and doing charity work, their real passion is to get to the heart of the issue so that people need not be rescued at all.
INFJ personality

Help Me Help You

INFJs indeed share a unique combination of traits: though soft-spoken, they have very strong opinions and will fight tirelessly for an idea they believe in. They are decisive and strong-willed, but will rarely use that energy for personal gain – INFJs will act with creativity, imagination, conviction and sensitivity not to create advantage, but to create balance. Egalitarianism and karma are very attractive ideas to INFJs, and they tend to believe that nothing would help the world so much as using love and compassion to soften the hearts of tyrants.

Every man must decide whether he will walk in the light of creative altruism or in the darkness of destructive selfishness.

Martin Luther King

INFJs find it easy to make connections with others, and have a talent for warm, sensitive language, speaking in human terms, rather than with pure logic and fact. It makes sense that their friends and colleagues will come to think of them as quiet Extraverted types, but they would all do well to remember that INFJs need time alone to decompress and recharge, and to not become too alarmed when they suddenly withdraw. INFJs take great care of other’s feelings, and they expect the favor to be returned – sometimes that means giving them the space they need for a few days.

Live to Fight Another Day

Really though, it is most important for INFJs to remember to take care of themselves. The passion of their convictions is perfectly capable of carrying them past their breaking point and if their zeal gets out of hand, they can find themselves exhausted, unhealthy and stressed. This becomes especially apparent when INFJs find themselves up against conflict and criticism – their sensitivity forces them to do everything they can to evade these seemingly personal attacks, but when the circumstances are unavoidable, they can fight back in highly irrational, unhelpful ways.

To INFJs, the world is a place full of inequity – but it doesn’t have to be. No other personality type is better suited to create a movement to right a wrong, no matter how big or small. INFJs just need to remember that while they’re busy taking care of the world, they need to take care of themselves, too.

Advocates You May Know

1 year ago
My dad is an INFJ, he's great but I find he tends to make more work for himself because of his very strong F trait, despite this he can argue as well as any T type. My brother is and INFJ too but unlike my dad I can't for the life of me have an intelligent conversation with him.
1 year ago
Wow, two INFJs in one family, I would have loved that
1 year ago
How incredible is it to find out I'm not "odd" I'm just rare! I have such a feeling of relief! It fits me to an INFJ-T!.
1 year ago
I'm an advocate! It matches my personality completely.
1 year ago
I started crying because of how accurate this is... I felt like someone had just scanned my brain with tech from the 50th century. I am so proud to be as unique as I am! Maybe I should show this to my friends, their always questioning me, even my first ever friend who I've known for 13 years; This would probably help them to understand me better, or maybe I want to stay as mysterious as possible...
1 year ago
You're not alone; I did the same thing! I felt like "finally! someone understands exactly who i am!" isn't it a beautiful thing to know that there are others like you out there? *smile*
1 year ago
Wow... It's me in a nutshell.
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