INFJ Personality (“The Advocate”)

The INFJ personality type is very rare, making up less than one percent of the population, but they nonetheless leave their mark on the world. As Diplomats, they have an inborn sense of idealism and morality, but what sets them apart is the accompanying Judging (J) trait – INFJs are not idle dreamers, but people capable of taking concrete steps to realize their goals and make a lasting positive impact.

INFJs tend to see helping others as their purpose in life, but while people with this personality type can be found engaging rescue efforts and doing charity work, their real passion is to get to the heart of the issue so that people need not be rescued at all.
INFJ personality

Help Me Help You

INFJs indeed share a unique combination of traits: though soft-spoken, they have very strong opinions and will fight tirelessly for an idea they believe in. They are decisive and strong-willed, but will rarely use that energy for personal gain – INFJs will act with creativity, imagination, conviction and sensitivity not to create advantage, but to create balance. Egalitarianism and karma are very attractive ideas to INFJs, and they tend to believe that nothing would help the world so much as using love and compassion to soften the hearts of tyrants.

Every man must decide whether he will walk in the light of creative altruism or in the darkness of destructive selfishness.

Martin Luther King

INFJs find it easy to make connections with others, and have a talent for warm, sensitive language, speaking in human terms, rather than with pure logic and fact. It makes sense that their friends and colleagues will come to think of them as quiet Extraverted types, but they would all do well to remember that INFJs need time alone to decompress and recharge, and to not become too alarmed when they suddenly withdraw. INFJs take great care of other’s feelings, and they expect the favor to be returned – sometimes that means giving them the space they need for a few days.

Live to Fight Another Day

Really though, it is most important for INFJs to remember to take care of themselves. The passion of their convictions is perfectly capable of carrying them past their breaking point and if their zeal gets out of hand, they can find themselves exhausted, unhealthy and stressed. This becomes especially apparent when INFJs find themselves up against conflict and criticism – their sensitivity forces them to do everything they can to evade these seemingly personal attacks, but when the circumstances are unavoidable, they can fight back in highly irrational, unhelpful ways.

To INFJs, the world is a place full of inequity – but it doesn’t have to be. No other personality type is better suited to create a movement to right a wrong, no matter how big or small. INFJs just need to remember that while they’re busy taking care of the world, they need to take care of themselves, too.

Advocates You May Know

1 year ago
Well, that explains a lot. Why it seems like people always come to me about how they feel, why I always feel so alone, why it feels like people don't understand me. I do tend to help others, oftentimes ignoring my own problems. And I do have only a few real friends. Surprisingly accurate. Unfortunately, this personality type doesn't mesh well with the life I've lived, which has been turbulent to put it lightly. But it's nice to know that despite having an extremely rare personality type, I'm not alone in it.
1 year ago
This is like reading my life as a book. I always thought I was just too picky when it came to relationships, but now I see why. As I read more about my personality, more things became apparent and obvious. Things just made sense!
1 year ago
SO ACCURATE Its like you read my mind about everything weird about me.Everything here is hands down correct.
1 year ago
I always thought there was something wrong with me because I am picky with my friends and sort out the ones that are the best. I also get very protective over them.
1 year ago
I think it really showed my personality in almost all parts, but as a INFJ-A I think 1 thing didn't fit, it says we are totally closed books, but except if I get asked by a stranger about someone I know (who I prefere to ask first before I say anything, out of respect and empathy) , I'm the most open book in the world ^^' But everything else fits =D Of course the test doesn't 100% show what I am, most likely, this comment is just a friendly feedback.
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