Energy: Introverted (I) vs. Extraverted (E)

More Than People Power

When considering people who are Introverts (I) and Extraverts (E), it’s natural to go straight to the more social aspects of these personality traits. However, they are more than this. These traits are also defined by their broader response to their environments, which includes other people but isn’t exclusively about them.

77% of Extraverts seek thrilling activities during their holidays, compared to 47% of Introverts.

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Introvert (I) Personality

Strength in Reserve

Introverts are well-suited to many situations. A tendency to be reserved helps these personality types to pace themselves. They’re likely to listen to others more carefully. Very introspective, Introverts enjoy more focused “alone time” – leading to more and deeper insights. And, while sometimes too sensitive to their environments, this often helps them pick up cues more quickly, making them great at reading many situations.

80% of Introverts say they often find that time spent alone is more interesting and satisfying than time spent with other people, compared to 29% of Extraverts.

However, this same reserve means that Introverts tend to find outside stimuli like noise, motion, or intrusive lighting frustrating. Some of this can be an invigorating change of pace – too much unsettles them and drains their energy. These personality types often prefer to be in their own space where they can adjust their environments. Add a human factor to this sensitivity – for example, insistent conversations where they’re expected to be just as insistent – and it can exhaust them. They need time alone to regather their energy and restore their calm.

People with this personality trait find strength in creating their own space.

Introverts’ reserved, more solitary nature presents challenges, as many societies favor Extraverts and their bolder approach. But it helps Introverted personality types to take things slowly, cautiously, and with less fanfare. Fortunately, if they’re willing – and create the time to recharge on their own – most Introverts can handle society’s strenuous demands.

In fact, many successful leaders and entertainers come from their ranks, often remaining humble and avoiding an unnecessary spotlight in fame. The Introversion personality trait never needs to disqualify those who possess it from pursuing a goal.

84% of Introverts would feel cautious, worried, or even downright horrified if they suddenly realized they were becoming famous, compared to 51% of Extraverts.

Extravert (E) Personality

The Power of Engagement

89% of Extraverts say they are comfortable verbally expressing gratitude when they feel it, compared to 67% of Introverts.

Extraverts are interested in engaging with their environment, and they feed off the responses of the people and events around them. They enjoy pushing limits and seeing what the world can do. This all depends on many other factors and life’s natural limitations, but Extraverted personality types lean toward taking the initiative and relying on the world around them for validation.

An idle Extravert is an Extravert looking for something to do.

While all of this is noble and often admired in society, it can also become unbridled. Extraverts may put too much value in their engagement with those around them. Being with others can be so important to these personalities that they often find it difficult if they’re stuck alone. Boredom comes too easily. This can lead them to do things simply for excitement rather than thinking through more subtle but important considerations. Becoming the center of attention – at any cost – might be too appealing.

87% of Extraverts believe they have what it takes to be a good leader, compared to 56% of Introverts.

However, when they suitably address these challenges, Extraverts are forces to be reckoned with. People with this personality trait tend to advance projects important to them quickly, whether personal or professional. They often choose to lead when given a chance – and can be dynamic in that role. Their outgoing energy can be vital to a social gathering, and their liveliness can be contagious. And there always remains a sense that people are important to them.

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I'm always told "Be more engaging!" or "Come with us it will be fun." but i don't think i want to be known to much or famous.
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Sometimes it happens with me, but if I'm happier, I'll get told to shut up and be quiet. If either that I'm super quiet around someone or super loud.
INFP avatar
I'm 100% Introverted, and I currently only have 2-4 actual friends!
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I feel like introverts are so underrated in society. It's all about the socialising. It's all about being fun and exciting and a "people" person.
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I agree. In my school report card I get criticized for "not engaging enough"
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same
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Same here. Apparently I come across as stand-offish?
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Exactly
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i got 'too quite'
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I think society is designed like that due to the fact that introverts don't often participate in society. Therefore the demographic of society as a whole does not include those of us sitting in our room and thinking.
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It's either that I'm as quiet as a mouse or that I'm a loud, possessed noodle rolling around on the floor. I have gotten asked before things like, "Why are you so quiet?" AND... "How are you so loud? Be quiet! I thought you were that shy girl who didn't want to talk to anyone!". I don't know how to explain it, I just kind of am like an on/off switch, there is no in between.
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I'm exactly the same; I'm an architect (INTJ) and I'm either listening quietly (thinking about something else some of the time) or arguing loudly about something I'm interested in. There really is no in between for me.
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I never undrstood the most important underlying thing that everyone should know about an introvert. Until recently. My fiance is INTJ-A. Firstly what everyone needs to understand. That introverted people can physically be caused pain in relation to their situation. Specifically how, where, when it is. By who is there And ifl they are expected to participate. And lastly, VERY importantly by how much down time (recharge alone time to do what they love stress free and totally undesturbed) tthey'vegotten in relation to the activity that needs exerting. Having extreme physical symptomatic pain makes sense when you think of true stress as the silent killer of so many. I really didn't know that my scientist chatty self when waking up at any god given time and ready to take on the world, even for a second, it bothered my fiance as much as it did. That is until one he looked lke he was going to be sick s I handed him his morning coffee wih a brightbdmile on my face. I then realizing his face, asked him what ws wrong. He carefully stated, being conscious of critizing my feeling that i may take nehatively, that "Most mornings im okay. . . with you and the talking thing. But when you do it when I first wake and its a lot and I havent even gotten into my miblndset for work yet it gives me a major anxiety attack." Then he ran to the bathroom amd was sick. I felt hortible and had no idea. We got through those early relationship days. Happy to say, however I do have some mornings my extroverted self starts blurting out things half awake like a chittery song bird in the morning, I look over as hes getting ready and evaluate his concern while asking myself 'is it really important? (If so, I parse down to a few sentence topic markers or try to)' Usually ill get a nod of okay, implying for a few minutes. I not I depart. Either way I'm happy to go make breakfast by myself while we both have our alone tom3e to get ready for the day. He can treat being over chatted to as useless distraction and on occassion has asked why I say so much when less is just as effective. I remind him yes, less can be more .... But you also have to understand any other extrovert that is a friend would be talking my head off just as much back, to charge up for the day.
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Introverts are really good friends, guaranteed :) Also I really STRUGGLE with what other people think of me and the impression I make on people :( anyone else agree?
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I rarely am the person to introduce myself to someone new. It just is so uncomfortable when people don't want to talk about something more than the weather or other small talk.
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I agree :(
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I have the same issue and I prefer when people talk about something interesting or deep, not plain gossip or small talk, it's a waste of my energy!
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As an ESTP-A I'm pretty careless about what people think about me, impression may be important on interviews, dates, business meetings :) Otherwise I would spend minimal time on thinking about it. When come to introducing yourself, if it make u panic and stressed out, I'd suggest the introverts to prepare a short script about yourself (2-3 scenarios for new friends, peers, business partners), prolly 4 to 5 sentences so you may use that when needed. I know some people LOVE to talk about weathers but how long could the discussion last and what should be discussed? I don't really get it may someone explain this part a bit more please? I have a crush on an Advocate guy for a while so I want to know how should I talk with him better. Thanks!
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same
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I agree, I always feel exhausted because people don’t get my words well (English isn’t my first language sorry)
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That’s okay! You’re doing amazing. Emotions are more important than words but sadly some people fail to understand our emotions
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Don't worry, worrying is pointless. What I mean is that people often won't judge you as much as you think they might. No matter what you do, you won't make everyone happy, so just accept that and don't stress too much.