INFJ Personality (“The Advocate”)

The INFJ personality type is very rare, making up less than one percent of the population, but they nonetheless leave their mark on the world. As Diplomats, they have an inborn sense of idealism and morality, but what sets them apart is the accompanying Judging (J) trait – INFJs are not idle dreamers, but people capable of taking concrete steps to realize their goals and make a lasting positive impact.

INFJs tend to see helping others as their purpose in life, but while people with this personality type can be found engaging rescue efforts and doing charity work, their real passion is to get to the heart of the issue so that people need not be rescued at all.
INFJ personality

Help Me Help You

INFJs indeed share a unique combination of traits: though soft-spoken, they have very strong opinions and will fight tirelessly for an idea they believe in. They are decisive and strong-willed, but will rarely use that energy for personal gain – INFJs will act with creativity, imagination, conviction and sensitivity not to create advantage, but to create balance. Egalitarianism and karma are very attractive ideas to INFJs, and they tend to believe that nothing would help the world so much as using love and compassion to soften the hearts of tyrants.

Every man must decide whether he will walk in the light of creative altruism or in the darkness of destructive selfishness.

Martin Luther King

INFJs find it easy to make connections with others, and have a talent for warm, sensitive language, speaking in human terms, rather than with pure logic and fact. It makes sense that their friends and colleagues will come to think of them as quiet Extraverted types, but they would all do well to remember that INFJs need time alone to decompress and recharge, and to not become too alarmed when they suddenly withdraw. INFJs take great care of other’s feelings, and they expect the favor to be returned – sometimes that means giving them the space they need for a few days.

Live to Fight Another Day

Really though, it is most important for INFJs to remember to take care of themselves. The passion of their convictions is perfectly capable of carrying them past their breaking point and if their zeal gets out of hand, they can find themselves exhausted, unhealthy and stressed. This becomes especially apparent when INFJs find themselves up against conflict and criticism – their sensitivity forces them to do everything they can to evade these seemingly personal attacks, but when the circumstances are unavoidable, they can fight back in highly irrational, unhelpful ways.

To INFJs, the world is a place full of inequity – but it doesn’t have to be. No other personality type is better suited to create a movement to right a wrong, no matter how big or small. INFJs just need to remember that while they’re busy taking care of the world, they need to take care of themselves, too.

Advocates You May Know

leena
2 years ago
Many people say I'm weird and I don't belong here, but really I was born like this. All the INFJ's out there you are great and don't listen to the rude comments people make... They are just jealous because they can't awesome like us.
Chantel
2 years ago
To always feel alone and misunderstood... But alas look at us all here ☺️Doesn't feel so "rare" now does it!
Anonymous
2 years ago
Rare as a rare steak ;)
Anne
2 years ago
I recently watched my first horror movie. It was good, but some of the scary scenes were a little to much for me. I realized why: I have a distinct dislike for loud, sudden surprises, usually of the bad kind. I am wondering if this is just me, or do other people with the INFJ personality have this?
Oksana
2 years ago
For me, it's seeing people or animals being hurt. I can't stomach it, especially if it involves children, seniors or animals. I get angry and cry.
Anonymous
2 years ago
I enjoy jumpscares. I love them. I wonder why?
MaryAnne
2 years ago
For some reason I felt so...relieved when I read this. Not because it's a label I can place on myself now, but it's like that moment of, "Finally, an explanation! I'm not weird, I'm just rare." It's nice to know there are people out there like me
Jessica Onnen
2 years ago
I've always felt like the odd man out. In pretty much any situation and through all stages of my life thus far. Now I know why! Haha I am rare :)
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