INTJ Personality (“The Architect”)

It’s lonely at the top, and being one of the rarest and most strategically capable personality types, INTJs know this all too well. INTJs form just two percent of the population, and women of this personality type are especially rare, forming just 0.8% of the population – it is often a challenge for them to find like-minded individuals who are able to keep up with their relentless intellectualism and chess-like maneuvering. People with the INTJ personality type are imaginative yet decisive, ambitious yet private, amazingly curious, but they do not squander their energy.

Nothing Can Stop the Right Attitude From Achieving Its Goal

With a natural thirst for knowledge that shows itself early in life, INTJs are often given the title of “bookworm” as children. While this may be intended as an insult by their peers, they more than likely identify with it and are even proud of it, greatly enjoying their broad and deep body of knowledge. INTJs enjoy sharing what they know as well, confident in their mastery of their chosen subjects, but owing to their Intuitive (N) and Judging (J) traits, they prefer to design and execute a brilliant plan within their field rather than share opinions on “uninteresting” distractions like gossip.

“You are not entitled to your opinion. You are entitled to your informed opinion. No one is entitled to be ignorant.”

Harlan Ellison

A paradox to most observers, INTJs are able to live by glaring contradictions that nonetheless make perfect sense – at least from a purely rational perspective. For example, INTJs are simultaneously the most starry-eyed idealists and the bitterest of cynics, a seemingly impossible conflict. But this is because INTJ types tend to believe that with effort, intelligence and consideration, nothing is impossible, while at the same time they believe that people are too lazy, short-sighted or self-serving to actually achieve those fantastic results. Yet that cynical view of reality is unlikely to stop an interested INTJ from achieving a result they believe to be relevant.

INTJ personality

In Matters Of Principle, Stand Like a Rock

INTJs radiate self-confidence and an aura of mystery, and their insightful observations, original ideas and formidable logic enable them to push change through with sheer willpower and force of personality. At times it will seem that INTJs are bent on deconstructing and rebuilding every idea and system they come into contact with, employing a sense of perfectionism and even morality to this work. Anyone who doesn’t have the talent to keep up with INTJs’ processes, or worse yet, doesn’t see the point of them, is likely to immediately and permanently lose their respect.

Rules, limitations and traditions are anathema to the INTJ personality type – everything should be open to questioning and reevaluation, and if they see a way, INTJs will often act unilaterally to enact their technically superior, sometimes insensitive, and almost always unorthodox methods and ideas.

This isn’t to be misunderstood as impulsiveness – INTJs will strive to remain rational no matter how attractive the end goal may be, and every idea, whether generated internally or soaked in from the outside world, must pass the ruthless and ever-present “Is this going to work?” filter. This mechanism is applied at all times, to all things and all people, and this is often where INTJ personality types run into trouble.

One Reflects More When Traveling Alone

INTJs are brilliant and confident in bodies of knowledge they have taken the time to understand, but unfortunately the social contract is unlikely to be one of those subjects. White lies and small talk are hard enough as it is for a type that craves truth and depth, but INTJs may go so far as to see many social conventions as downright stupid. Ironically, it is often best for them to remain where they are comfortable – out of the spotlight – where the natural confidence prevalent in INTJs as they work with the familiar can serve as its own beacon, attracting people, romantically or otherwise, of similar temperament and interests.

INTJs are defined by their tendency to move through life as though it were a giant chess board, pieces constantly shifting with consideration and intelligence, always assessing new tactics, strategies and contingency plans, constantly outmaneuvering their peers in order to maintain control of a situation while maximizing their freedom to move about. This isn’t meant to suggest that INTJs act without conscience, but to many Feeling (F) types, INTJs’ distaste for acting on emotion can make it seem that way, and it explains why many fictional villains (and misunderstood heroes) are modeled on this personality type.

Architects You May Know

Nikki
4 years ago
I'm an INTJ female, and until I found out about personality types, I didn't understand why no one in my family understood me. But now I pride my self in being an intj and I'm much more outspoken and confident. I would SO much rather be mysterious and rare than mainstream and easy to understand.
Anna
4 years ago
It's a little creepy how accurate this is... I'm a young INTJ female, and it's been very nice to learn that a lot of things that I thought were faults or "something wrong with me" were actually just parts of a rare personality type. Does anyone else get irritated by the way masterminds are ALWAYS cast in the roles of villains in fiction?
Alexandra
4 years ago
Not really, it's sort of a compliment.
AM
4 years ago
Not always, think about Gandalf from The Lord of the Rings and The Hobbit. (Lord Elrond as well.) But as to getting irritated by all the ones who are villains... Not really, but the thing that does irritate me about it is that they never succeed... Though they aren't meant to, since its a movie and almost always the villain never wins, its still annoying.
JB
4 years ago
Well this explains a lot. Funny, I was just thinking the other day about how it is I can possibly make such good decisions everywhere else in my life but with relationships, I'm lead astray. I guess this explains it.
Jules
4 years ago
As a young INTJ I could never understand why people thought I was aloof in some situations. Of course I wasn't, I was just thinking. Alot of people who are very insecure have difficulty around me. It took me years to discover there really wasn't anything wrong with me, it was just me. Once I embraced and understood my INTJness I was free to be me and I have had the pleasure of being a leader in my field, in my place of work and as a mother. Knowledge really is power and if you are knowledgeable about yourself, the people who are triggered by your mere presence will soon learn to respect and rely on you (or they will get as far away from you as they can!!)
Jarrett
4 years ago
Quite concurrent with me if I do say so myself. This is a spot on review of the inner mechanics of my own mind. And to the people who fear that they aren't self-confident, I believe that this means that you aren't constantly criticizing yourself, not the self-confidence that would allow you to meet people because I lack that, as stated in this description.
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