INFJ Relationships

When it comes to romantic relationships, INFJs take the process of finding a partner seriously. Not ones for casual encounters, people with the INFJ personality type instead look for depth and meaning in their relationships. INFJs will take the time necessary to find someone they truly connect with – once they’ve found that someone, their relationships will reach a level of depth and sincerity that most people can only dream of.

INFJ romantic relationships

Getting to that point can sometimes be a challenge for potential partners, especially if they are the impatient type, as INFJs are often perfectionistic and picky. People with this personality type aren’t easily talked into something they don’t want, and if someone doesn’t pick up on that, it’s a trespass that is unlikely to be forgiven, particularly in the early stages of dating. Even worse is if a suitor tries to resort to manipulation or lying, as INFJs will see right through it, and if there’s anything they have a poor tolerance for in a relationship, it is inauthenticity.

Is This for Real?

One of the things INFJs find most important is establishing genuine, deep connections with the people they care about.

INFJs will go out of their way to seek out people who share their desire for authenticity, and out of their way to avoid those who don’t, especially when looking for a partner. All that being said, INFJs often have the advantage of desirability – they are warm, friendly, caring and insightful, seeing past facades and the obvious to understand others’ thoughts and emotions.

INFJs are enthusiastic in their relationships, and there is a sense of wisdom behind their spontaneity, allowing them to pleasantly surprise their partners again and again. INFJs aren’t afraid to show their love, and they feel it unconditionally, creating a depth to the relationship that can hardly be described in conventional terms. Relationships with INFJs are not for the uncommitted or the shallow.

When it comes to intimacy, INFJs look for a connection that goes beyond the physical, embracing the emotional and even spiritual connection they have with their partner. People with the INFJ personality type are passionate partners, and see intimacy as a way to express their love and to make their partners happy. INFJs cherish not just the act of being in a relationship, but what it means to become one with another person, in mind, body and soul.

Anika
2 years ago
So accurate
Carole Shepherd
2 years ago
I used to think that the way I felt around groups of people it was low self esteem. I spent years trying to correct that. I am older now and feel confident in my self but, that is because I am older now. I do not have low self esteem. I am an INFJ : ) I am confident but, still feel uneasy in groups of people I know (close or acquaintances). Crowds of strangers don't bother me...weird.
keycee
2 years ago
It's like a bull's eye hit.
little devil
2 years ago
This is so accurate.
Petra
2 years ago
INFJ: I finally understand why I am as I am. And I don't feel so lost any more after realising that I'm not the only one :) It's been a really tough time for me trying to figure myself out and trying to fit in with others, feeling different and awkward when being me. I always felt like I am a mix of different personalities, but never a specific one. Now I understand how special and unique I am. :)
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