INFJ Relationships

When it comes to romantic relationships, INFJs take the process of finding a partner seriously. Not ones for casual encounters, people with the INFJ personality type instead look for depth and meaning in their relationships. INFJs will take the time necessary to find someone they truly connect with – once they’ve found that someone, their relationships will reach a level of depth and sincerity that most people can only dream of.

INFJ romantic relationships

Getting to that point can sometimes be a challenge for potential partners, especially if they are the impatient type, as INFJs are often perfectionistic and picky. People with this personality type aren’t easily talked into something they don’t want, and if someone doesn’t pick up on that, it’s a trespass that is unlikely to be forgiven, particularly in the early stages of dating. Even worse is if a suitor tries to resort to manipulation or lying, as INFJs will see right through it, and if there’s anything they have a poor tolerance for in a relationship, it is inauthenticity.

Is This for Real?

One of the things INFJs find most important is establishing genuine, deep connections with the people they care about.

INFJs will go out of their way to seek out people who share their desire for authenticity, and out of their way to avoid those who don’t, especially when looking for a partner. All that being said, INFJs often have the advantage of desirability – they are warm, friendly, caring and insightful, seeing past facades and the obvious to understand others’ thoughts and emotions.

INFJs are enthusiastic in their relationships, and there is a sense of wisdom behind their spontaneity, allowing them to pleasantly surprise their partners again and again. INFJs aren’t afraid to show their love, and they feel it unconditionally, creating a depth to the relationship that can hardly be described in conventional terms. Relationships with INFJs are not for the uncommitted or the shallow.

When it comes to intimacy, INFJs look for a connection that goes beyond the physical, embracing the emotional and even spiritual connection they have with their partner. People with the INFJ personality type are passionate partners, and see intimacy as a way to express their love and to make their partners happy. INFJs cherish not just the act of being in a relationship, but what it means to become one with another person, in mind, body and soul.

2 years ago
Oh gosh...these traits...they match up to me A LOT. It's weird, but it's also reassuring, to be honest.
2 years ago
I'm an ENTP and I heard we pair well with you guys.
2 years ago
As have I... oddly enough though, INFJs feel like exactly the kind of people we might offend by accident.
10 months ago
Yeah ENFP’s or ENTP’s are supposed to statistically be the most compatible with the INFJ.
2 years ago
I'm still 21. but I do take finding a girlfriend seriously and a bit picky. It's for good reasons so there is no unnecessary heart break. However, finding someone at such qualities is like finding a needle in the ocean. Good luck to me! lol
3 years ago
This is me. It's still really scary but me!
3 years ago
Always thought I was the odd-ball in a family of extroverts because I would rather be quiet and listen. Thanks for putting some clarity to it.
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