ENTJ Friends

As in most aspects of their lives, in friendship ENTJs seek personal growth and inspiration, and they often have a plan for how to accomplish it. Friendships of circumstance, built on things like shared routines, are not ENTJs’ preferred method – rather, they pursue their friends, seek out individuals who share their passion for deep, meaningful discussions, and who enjoy learning and development as much as they do. It is not always easy to be ENTJs’ friends – they demand a lot from these relationships – but they pay a great deal of attention to their friendships, and it is unlikely that it will ever feel stagnant.

ENTJ friends

ENTJ friendships are built on ideas, and a lot of what they find enjoyable is the repartee of putting thoughts forward and defending them from assault from every angle. People with the ENTJ personality type are very smart and highly critical, and they won’t back down if they are put on the defensive – in fact, there’s no better way to earn their respect.

It’s not easy to stand up to a personality as big and blustery as ENTJs’, and they too often find that others crumple under the force they apply when they really start to enjoy themselves.

Only the most hardened rationalists are able to hold their ground against strongly expressed ENTJ personalities, who neither need emotional support, nor understand others’ need for it. This lack of sensitivity is ENTJs’ chiefest weakness. Their tendency to challenge their friends, question their conclusions, and dismiss emotional arguments as irrelevant is especially difficult for Feeling-oriented friends to cope with. Either a point is supported by logic and reason, or it is erroneous.

Prisoners of Our Own Minds

More enlightened ENTJs recognize that if ever there was an area where they could learn from others and improve themselves, it is in the realm of emotional sensitivity – to dismiss any aspect of personal growth borders on hypocrisy. Friendships with people from the Diplomat type group can be especially rewarding for ENTJs, as the shared Intuitive (N) trait fosters an instantaneous connection that can bridge the chasm between their uninhibited logic and the recognition that cooperation and conciliation can often accomplish more than that logic ever could alone.

Still, the bulk of ENTJs’ friends will likely fall into the Analyst category, as all of these types share the same passion for logical, far-reaching ideas and critical debate. Anyone who can match ENTJs’ ability to brainstorm and theorize will find an honest and dedicated friend. Anyone who can’t, as with many Observant (S) types who often question the point of such discussions, will find themselves ignored – perhaps a situation that is best for everyone.

3 months ago
This almost makes me laugh, thinking of my very ENTJ brother. As I am an INTP, we two always find ourselves debating...
Anonymous
1 year ago
I just met someone who is an ENTJ, and I've found that most of this is true. I'm an ENFJ, so we share similarities, but the thing that makes us different is that she relies more on the logic while I am definitely for feeling.
prerna
2 years ago
I am a entj . they say it is very rare
Paps
2 years ago
Explains why i haven't found anyone suitable for the post of best friend yet! :-)
khushi
3 years ago
this is really very true and correct.
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