Unlikely (but Magical) Careers for Mediators (INFPs)

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If you’ve ever scrolled through lists of the “best careers for Mediators” (INFPs), you’ve probably noticed that certain jobs tend to get mentioned over and over again, such as mental health counseling, writing, and social work. Caring and creative, Mediators can indeed excel in these fields. But it’s a big world out there, and people with this personality type are thriving in all sorts of jobs that are rarely (if ever) mentioned among the usual recommendations.

In this article, we’ll offer three career ideas for Mediators that may seem a bit outside the box, and we’ll explain why they can actually be a great fit for people with this personality type. Even if none of these jobs speak to your Mediator soul, we hope that they’ll inspire you to see that your gifts can lend themselves to a range of professional paths – including ever so many that won’t find their way onto a standard “best careers for Mediators” list.

These ideas are inspired by our Thoughts and Stories section, where real people with different personality types submit insights and anecdotes from their own lives.

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Career Idea #1: Fitness Instructor

Why It Seems Like an Unlikely Match

Mediators are Introverts, which means that they often feel drained after spending time with groups of people. It’s easy to assume that they would feel worn out after leading a fitness class and that they’d be uncomfortable being the center of attention.

Why It Can Be Magical

Mediators love to inspire growth in other people – and that’s exactly what a good fitness instructor does. Whether they’re leading a yoga flow or a spin class, fitness instructors can help the people they teach recognize their strengths and appreciate every bit of improvement that they make. With their warmth and empathy, Mediator personalities can turn a workout into an environment where participants can be their authentic selves and feel a sense of belonging. Plus, the physical aspect of the job can help keep Mediators from getting stuck in their own heads.

Takeaway

As Introverts, Mediators do need alone time to recharge their energy. But as long as they feel a sense of mission in their work, they can still thrive and find fulfillment in jobs that require a fair amount of interpersonal interaction.

Career Idea #2: Genetic Counselor

Why It Seems Like an Unlikely Match

Careers that involve science and technology are often associated with the Thinking personality trait. But this is just a stereotype – people with the Feeling trait, such as Mediators, can excel in technical fields, just as people with the Thinking trait can excel in the arts and humanities.

Why It Can Be Magical

When someone is learning whether they or their children are at risk of an inherited disorder, the situation is stressful, to say the least. Genetic counselors not only help assess a patient’s genetic risk, they often also communicate directly with the patient to answer their questions and offer guidance. As genetic counselors, Mediators can satisfy the calling that they feel to help others and to offer support, insight, and empathy to those who need it most.

Takeaway

Anyone who tells you that Mediator personalities aren’t suited to scientific and technical careers is, in a word, wrong. Mediators can absolutely master the expertise needed for careers in science and tech, and their compassion and communication skills can help them make even more of a difference in these roles.

Career Idea #3: Custom Carpenter

Why It Seems Like an Unlikely Match

Because Mediators have such rich imaginations and inner lives, it’s easy to assume that they would gravitate to cerebral careers rather than hands-on work. This is yet another stereotype without any real foundation – people with the Mediator personality type may be daydreamers, but that doesn’t mean that they don’t find satisfaction in working with their hands.

Why It Can Be Magical

As custom carpenters, Mediators can use their creativity and insight to help people find more joy, comfort, and utility in their homes and businesses. A good custom carpenter listens to their clients’ frustrations with their current space and devises beautiful, functional solutions. This is an excellent opportunity for Mediators to put their listening skills and their intuition to full use. Plus, doing hands-on work allows Mediators to get out of their heads and enjoy making tangible progress.

Takeaway

Because Mediators often get lost in thought, they may tell themselves that they’re not suited to working with their hands. But careers in the trades give people with this personality type a chance to use their creativity and human insight while staying grounded in the present moment. When they finish a project, Mediators in these fields can enjoy the satisfaction of a job well done – and of having changed a client’s home or business for the better.

Conclusion

Free-spirited Mediators are happiest when they march to the beat of their own drum – and that includes when it comes to picking careers. Our hope is that this article has reminded those of you with this personality type that many professional paths – even if they don’t seem like an obvious fit – can be a beautiful match for your values, your goals, and your gifts.

So, Mediators, do any of these career options resonate with you? What other off-the-beaten-track professions intrigue you? Tell us in the comments below.

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I'm a software engineer and project manager and being a Mediator didn't prevent me from writing good code. In fact, I think my imagination helped me to come up with solutions quicker than most. And then as a project manager, the people who reported to me I think really appreciated my empathy. ... It is funny though. I kind of fell into software engineering back in the 1990s. It wasn't my dream and I have often thought of other careers, and I have thought of being a fitness instructor, a psychologist/counselor, and designing and building furniture. This article helped me to make sense of why I thought those careers would appeal to me.
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I’m a fitness instructor and soo resonate with the explanation. This is a perfect fit for me.
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Traffic control. As a INFP-A I am surprised by the fact that I am good at setting up and controlling traffic around job sites on the road. We work in small groups and are responsible for safety of our crews and public. No job site is the same and requires specific set ups with no site specific plan. I enjoy the process of creating a good traffic control plan and implementing it. I get to spend the day outside alone with my thoughts and a few co workers. It is not for everyone, however I enjoy my job.
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I am not a carpenter but do work with fabric instead. I design rooms and color and curtains. I design and sew quilts for clients as well as for family. The piece work is by machine. The quilting is by hand. All scraps go towards Quilt For Kids Project. It is SO rewarding. Give it a try mediators ❤️
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I’m thinking of becoming a lawyer one day, but I’m not sure if the career suits the personality traits. Any other Mediator-lawyers out there?
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I went to law school and wound up in finance. Never practiced but I’m in a legal tech role now, specifically contract automation or CLM. It was the best route for me. I work with lawyers and developers daily. I feel there’s more flexibility and innovation in tech compared to law. However, they’re very similar as well (logical arguments are the foundation of code and legal analysis). It’s a great intersection and a growing demand! I will say a legal education has been invaluable and I’m now exploring freelancing as a contract attorney. I’ve had a very non-traditional journey compared to my colleagues.
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I graduated in law and tried to work as a lawyer for some time, but didn't take long to quit. INFP people like us often want to help people, but despite my desire, I had to look away for a lot of wrong things as I was powerless to do anything. I often said that people in law are supposed to be examples to society, and yet, we are the ones who do wrong the most, that's why I left. But honestly, I hope my comment alone is not enough to discourage you, seek more opinions, and if it's what you want, don't let anyone tell you otherwise, you should try it for yourself, I know lawyers who absolutely enjoy their jobs and help people, it's just wasn't the right one for me.
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Hello! Maybe this comment will find you too late, but still. I'm a lawyer and I used to work as a legal counsel for a little bit more than 3 years before changing the vector to a kind of support of a foreign trade activity (I work with the documents mostly). At first, while studying, I felt like this profession matches my personality almost perfectly, because it was about how to do something right and help people, and required patience and going deep into the details. It suites me well. But I was quite strict at my sense of justice and... naive :) With time I faced a really strong frustration because I saw a huge difference between the theory and practice. The laws can be applied in a horrible way, moreover, the laws can be adopted without any logic for people, not helping them at all. And I didn't feel like a can influence on something in a good way. Also I've burned out because of the small and big stupid things my boss used to do without letting know the lawyers (who cares how to do something in a legal field, right?), but it's another story. Anyway, I don't regret I've graduated the law faculty. Although I still try to find something else to do and explore my talents, this profession will never be useless for you personally. No matter what you do, you will very likely stay the citizen of your country. And when you are a citizen who knows his/her rights and obligations and knows the same about other people and state offices, it's a nightmare for those who tries to fool you :) So this profession really helps while living. Plus to this, you can use your professional knowledge and skills in lots of different areas, so there is always a chance that you will find the field and job that will match you personally. To sum up, I still want to encourage you to follow your interests. Nobody knows the right way, solution or choice, but it's really important to be true to yourself. As an INFP you know it better than anyone else ;)