INFJs are warm and caring partners, able to love unconditionally and show that love to their partners. They tend to be perfectionists, which can sometimes irritate their partners; however, such a tendency also shows how sincere and serious INFJs can be. INFJ relationships often reach the level of depth that most people could only dream of.
INFJs possess the ability to see behind the obvious, to clearly understand the idea behind the process. They are extraordinarily insightful and able to sense other people’s thoughts, desires, and emotions very easily. This is an incredible strength in romantic relationships and helps INFJs a lot during the dating phase.
INFJs can act wisely and spontaneously even in the face of unforeseen events, which contrasts with often less flexible Analysts (NT) or Sentinels (SJ). INFJs’ dating and relationship partners can expect to be pleasantly surprised over and over again.
It is hard to manipulate an INFJ as they evaluate the motives of other people very carefully, especially when dating. It is very rare for an INFJ to be tricked or talked into something they did not want. Nevertheless, the INFJs are friendly and full of compassion, even though they can be very picky when it comes to choosing their dating partners. A relationship with an INFJ is a connection that simply cannot be described in everyday terms.
From the sexual perspective, INFJs look at intimacy as an excellent opportunity to express their love and make their partner happy. They enjoy becoming one with their partner, physically and spiritually, even if just for a short while. INFJs’ emotions are incredibly powerful, and they cherish the idea of expressing them in this way. People with this personality type are likely to be very passionate and enthusiastic partners.
Preferred partners: ENFP and ENTP types, as their Extraversion (E) and Prospecting (P) traits counterbalance INFJs’ Introversion (I) and Judging (J) traits. INTJs are also a very strong match as the intuitive connection between INFJ and INTJ is likely to be instantaneous.
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