Energy: Introverted (I) vs. Extraverted (E)

More Than People Power

When considering people who are Introverts (I) and Extraverts (E), it’s natural to go straight to the more social aspects of these personality traits. However, they are more than this. These traits are also defined by their broader response to their environments, which includes other people but isn’t exclusively about them.

77% of Extraverts seek thrilling activities during their holidays, compared to 47% of Introverts.

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Introvert (I) Personality

Strength in Reserve

Introverts are well-suited to many situations. A tendency to be reserved helps these personality types to pace themselves. They’re likely to listen to others more carefully. Very introspective, Introverts enjoy more focused “alone time” – leading to more and deeper insights. And, while sometimes too sensitive to their environments, this often helps them pick up cues more quickly, making them great at reading many situations.

80% of Introverts say they often find that time spent alone is more interesting and satisfying than time spent with other people, compared to 29% of Extraverts.

However, this same reserve means that Introverts tend to find outside stimuli like noise, motion, or intrusive lighting frustrating. Some of this can be an invigorating change of pace – too much unsettles them and drains their energy. These personality types often prefer to be in their own space where they can adjust their environments. Add a human factor to this sensitivity – for example, insistent conversations where they’re expected to be just as insistent – and it can exhaust them. They need time alone to regather their energy and restore their calm.

People with this personality trait find strength in creating their own space.

Introverts’ reserved, more solitary nature presents challenges, as many societies favor Extraverts and their bolder approach. But it helps Introverted personality types to take things slowly, cautiously, and with less fanfare. Fortunately, if they’re willing – and create the time to recharge on their own – most Introverts can handle society’s strenuous demands.

In fact, many successful leaders and entertainers come from their ranks, often remaining humble and avoiding an unnecessary spotlight in fame. The Introversion personality trait never needs to disqualify those who possess it from pursuing a goal.

84% of Introverts would feel cautious, worried, or even downright horrified if they suddenly realized they were becoming famous, compared to 51% of Extraverts.

Extravert (E) Personality

The Power of Engagement

89% of Extraverts say they are comfortable verbally expressing gratitude when they feel it, compared to 67% of Introverts.

Extraverts are interested in engaging with their environment, and they feed off the responses of the people and events around them. They enjoy pushing limits and seeing what the world can do. This all depends on many other factors and life’s natural limitations, but Extraverted personality types lean toward taking the initiative and relying on the world around them for validation.

An idle Extravert is an Extravert looking for something to do.

While all of this is noble and often admired in society, it can also become unbridled. Extraverts may put too much value in their engagement with those around them. Being with others can be so important to these personalities that they often find it difficult if they’re stuck alone. Boredom comes too easily. This can lead them to do things simply for excitement rather than thinking through more subtle but important considerations. Becoming the center of attention – at any cost – might be too appealing.

87% of Extraverts believe they have what it takes to be a good leader, compared to 56% of Introverts.

However, when they suitably address these challenges, Extraverts are forces to be reckoned with. People with this personality trait tend to advance projects important to them quickly, whether personal or professional. They often choose to lead when given a chance – and can be dynamic in that role. Their outgoing energy can be vital to a social gathering, and their liveliness can be contagious. And there always remains a sense that people are important to them.

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INFJ avatar
This is awesome! I am all of the introvert/ advocate! very cool indeed! Self discovery I love it!
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Hello, fellow INFJ-A! I feel so much less alone being here...haha!
INFJ avatar
I'm an INFJ-T though:)
INFJ avatar
Hello! I am INFJ-T too hahah Where are you from?
ISFP avatar
90% Introvert....It's so identical to me and my personality...
ENFJ avatar
Very insightful and thought provoking.
INTP avatar
I wouldn't say I'm a good leader honestly, but I do seek out leadership in group projects, and I tend to tell people what to do a lot. This is not exactly because I want to lead, but because the alternative is doing what someone else says and I would rather not, especially because many people cannot be relied upon to actually provide logical reasoning for their points.
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Although I would say that the best way to do things is to just have no group projects in schools, then all can be judged on their own merit and what they do, as you get marked on the thing only you did rather than losing marks because of someone else. Also, being in a group is distracting and it requires a lot of organization which can become difficult at times to manage.
ENFP avatar
I agree with most of what you said, but I found group projects in school and college important in preparing me for expectations in working with others in the workforce. Frustrations related to having a manager or teammates who can’t pull their weight or those who keep distracting from work is something that never goes away :(. As a fellow INTP, I also tend to take up leadership roles because it’s somehow easier to manage knowing where a group falls short, and maybe imagining a better path to execute a solution.
INTP avatar
Good point. But it just makes it even more annoying that the whole point of the problem is being prepared for a life of experiencing it :(. What is the problem with the world, seriously?
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Everything, I'm afraid...lol
ENFJ avatar
Do not be afraid of things because you can do things by yourself if there is no one to support you and if someone supports you then it would be better because all human beings are afraid
ISTJ avatar
Honestly you’re right. We have too much in this world… we need a change…
INFP avatar
As an introvert I find I don't enjoy spending time with any of my friends, I thought something was wrong with me so I made new friends but i still have the same feelings.
ENFP avatar
Finding one’s tribe can be difficult sometimes! I think mostly introverted people feel and do better in Small groups of friends with deeper and more meaningful connections rather than a big group. Don’t be discouraged! And also remember you have to open up quiet a bit to make some true friends, it’s sometimes scary to open up but when we do open up to the right people it’s well worth it!
INTJ avatar
I had this feeling as well. I had a group of friends but I didn‘t enjoy hanging out with them so I got rid of them and searched for a new group, but same was there. Then, after a lot of self-reflection I realized that it doesn‘t matter who those friends are, as long as it‘s a friend group I won‘t feel comfortable. So, now I have less than a handful of friends and I‘m happy about it. These friends all have their own friend group and sometimes they join us but more often than not we have 1-on-1 time and it‘s the best thing. I hope you can find the courage to loose large friend groups and find your pick of friends that make you happy!