ESFJ Strengths and Weaknesses

ESFJ Strengths

ESFJ strengths
  • Strong Practical Skills – ESFJs are excellent managers of day-to-day tasks and routine maintenance, enjoying making sure that those who are close to them are well cared for.
  • Strong Sense of Duty – People with the ESFJ personality type have a strong sense of responsibility and strive to meet their obligations, though this may sometimes be more from a sense of social expectations than intrinsic drive.
  • Very Loyal – Valuing stability and security very highly, ESFJs are eager to preserve the status quo, which makes them extremely loyal and trustworthy partners and employees. ESFJs are true pillars of any groups they belong to – whether it is their family or a community club, people with this personality type can always be relied upon.
  • Sensitive and Warm – Helping to ensure that stability, ESFJ personalities seek harmony and care deeply about other people’s feelings, being careful not to offend or hurt anybody. ESFJs are strong team players, and win-win situations are the stuff smiles are made of.
  • Good at Connecting with Others – These qualities come together to make ESFJs social, comfortable and well-liked. ESFJ personalities have a strong need to "belong", and have no problem with small talk or following social cues in order to help them take an active role in their communities.

ESFJ Weaknesses

ESFJ weaknesses
  • Worried about Their Social Status – These Strengths are related to a chief Weakness: ESFJs’ preoccupation with social status and influence, which affects many decisions they make, potentially limiting their creativity and open-mindedness.
  • Inflexible – ESFJs place a lot of importance on what is socially acceptable, and can be very cautious, even critical of anything unconventional or outside the mainstream. People with this personality type may also sometimes push their own beliefs too hard in an effort to establish them as mainstream.
  • Reluctant to Innovate or Improvise – Just as they can be critical of others’ "unusual" behavior, ESFJs may also be unwilling to step out of their own comfort zones, usually for fear of being (or just appearing) different.
  • Vulnerable to Criticism – It can be especially challenging to change these tendencies because ESFJs are so conflict-averse. ESFJ personalities can become very defensive and hurt if someone, especially a person close to them, criticizes their habits, beliefs or traditions.
  • Often Too Needy – ESFJs need to hear and see a great deal of appreciation. If their efforts go unnoticed, people with the ESFJ personality type may start fishing for compliments, in an attempt to get reassurance of how much they are valued.
  • Too Selfless – The other side of this is that ESFJs sometimes try to establish their value with doting attention, something that can quickly overwhelm those who don’t need it, making it ultimately unwelcome. Furthermore, ESFJs often neglect their own needs in the process.
4 years ago
1000% me, It is so correct and thanks so much I will now start working on my weaknesses!
Chris Forsyth
4 years ago
I don't care about social status, but I do want to be liked. I am flexible and able to adapt to most situations, and am not really needy. The rest fits.
4 years ago
`Take their duties very seriously.` and `Very vulnerable to criticism.` are the points that I disagree. I agree with other points about my personality. Very good test. Thank you.
Lucia Villanueva
5 years ago
I think there are a lot of accurate assessments here with respect to my own personality-- but a few pretty important ones are not accurate. For example, I don't think I am traditional in the least-- in my relationship (and in general in relationships) I have been the initiator and not the man. Also I don't understand the weakness on social status. What does this mean really? I am not concerned with social constructs, if people don't like me because I don't "follow the rules" I don't care. I don't try to increase my influence on anyone-- but yes I do want to be seen as responsible and I appreciate being respected.
5 years ago
Close to dead-on. Although I would say I am less needy and more outward--more giving. I'm not sure what you other ESFJers think but I've come up with an aphorism that might fit this personality. Here it is: "Love persons, not people." Only reason why I bring this up is because I'm not a global-minded person. I generally dislike the world and the groups of people in it. But a person separated from a group and left in his elemental state, as something that I cannot come up with a better term other than "human" as opposed to "human race," is what I find great interest in. Anyone have similar thoughts?
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