ENFP personality

It doesn’t interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for – and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart’s longing. It doesn’t interest me how old you are. I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool – for love – for your dreams – for the adventure of being alive.

Oriah Mountain Dreamer

The ENFP personality is a true free spirit. They are often the life of the party, but unlike Explorers, ENFPs are less interested in the sheer excitement and pleasure of the moment than they are in enjoying the social and emotional connections they make with others. Charming, independent, energetic and compassionate, the 7% of the population that ENFPs comprise can certainly be felt in any crowd.

More than just sociable people-pleasers though, ENFPs, like all their Diplomat (NF) cousins, are shaped by their Intuitive (N) quality, allowing them to read between the lines with curiosity and energy. They tend to see life as a big, complex puzzle where everything is connected – but unlike Analysts, who tend to see that puzzle as a series of systemic machinations, ENFPs see it through a prism of emotion, compassion and mysticism, and are always looking for a deeper meaning. This personality type is fiercely independent, and much more than stability and security, they crave creativity and freedom.

ENFPMany other types are likely to find these qualities irresistible, and if the ENFP has found a cause that sparks their imagination, they will bring an energy that oftentimes thrusts them into the spotlight, held up by their peers as a leader and a guru – but this isn’t always where independence-loving ENFP wants to be. Worse still if they find themselves beset by administrative tasks and routine maintenance in their new position. ENFPs’ self-esteem is dependent on their ability to come up with original solutions, and they need to know that they have the freedom to be innovative – they can quickly lose patience or become dejected if they get trapped in a boring role.

Luckily, ENFPs know how to relax, and they are perfectly capable of switching from a passionate, driven idealist in the workplace to that imaginative and enthusiastic free spirit on the dance floor, often with a suddenness that can surprise even their closest friends. Being in the mix also gives them a chance to connect emotionally with others, giving them cherished insight into what motivates their friends and colleagues. ENFPs believe that everyone should take the time to recognize and express their feelings, and their empathy and sociability make that a natural conversation topic.

The ENFP personality type needs to be careful, however – if they rely too much on their intuition, assume or anticipate too much about a friend’s motivations, they can misread the signals and frustrate plans that a more straightforward approach would have made simple. This kind of social stress is the bugbear that keeps harmony-focused Diplomats awake at night. ENFPs are very emotional and sensitive, and when they step on someone’s toes, they both feel it.

ENFPs will spend a lot of time exploring social relationships, feelings and ideas before they find something that really rings true. But when they finally do find their place in the world, their imagination, empathy and courage are likely to produce incredible results.

Famous ENFPs:

Robert Downey
Carol Burnett
Meg Ryan
Robin Williams
Sandra Bullock
Alicia Silverstone
Andy Rooney
Franz Joseph Haydn


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Jul 22, 2014 21:07:19
See only parts of this apply to me. I don't have any preference between thinking and feeling so apparently ENTP can also apply. I dislike emotions, greatly, but mine always seem to be terribly intense, much to my own annoyance. I suppose that would be the thinking side talking. Well, at least this should help me out later, since diplomacy is kinda what I want to do *shrugs
Jul 21, 2014 04:37:38
I daydream every night and I love people, I cant hate someone, I just cant, im an optimist and spontaneous, I love being with people but sometimes I feel alone....all my life if felt different, but I guess im not :)
The redults were spot on and now I know that im not alone when it comes to my personality and traits.
Jul 18, 2014 02:47:22
Spot on for me except for the unsteadiness and seeming fickleness. I think I'm between ENFP and ISTJ if that's possible (mostly enfp, though)!
Jul 08, 2014 15:30:24
I can't believe that only 7% of the population has the same personality that I do. That's very few. No wonder I see things a little differently then others. Oh well, I like my personality. I have been told that I am too empithetic "to a fault". I dont think empathy is a fault. I think it connects you the person you are dealing with in a way that puts you directly in their shoes, you feel their pain so to say. Their for you can give better advice then someone who is not as connected.
Jul 18, 2014 12:38:57
you need to know that only 1-3% of population have the infj personality
Jul 01, 2014 17:26:28
I took this test as a school requirement. I was almost in tears about how accurate this was. Every sentance related to an experience or personality trait of mine. Thanks you so much for making this quiz.