INTP Friends

Many of the usual motivations for making friends – emotional support, social validation, shared routine – simply don’t apply to INTPs. More likely, these concepts are met with disdain, as people with the INTP personality type prize intellectual depth above all else. It is not easy to become good friends with INTPs, but if there is a common interest and a common train of thought, the connection is likely to spark instantly, surprising everyone else who thought they had this distant personality type pegged.

INTP friends

Be Slow to Fall Into Friendship...

INTP friendships are knowledge-based, defined by the exchange of ideas, theories, and concepts, and those who aren’t able to keep up with this, or who have sharply differing tastes (don’t talk to INTPs about celebrities) will find stony faces that border on rude. To INTPs, communication is often more of a nuisance than a pleasure, and conversation is reserved for topics that they find meaningful, or for people they already like enough to stick it out.

Unless there’s a natural affinity for this intellectual style, few have the patience to try to penetrate their shields, and INTPs are left with a naturally small circle of good friends.

Other Analyst types are a natural fit for INTPs, who share their passion for new ideas, riddles and solutions. People with the INTP personality type are knowledgeable and intelligent, and have a great deal of respect for those who can keep them on their toes in this regard. They will gladly help to tackle any dilemma thrown their way, offering up sound advice and rational solutions. As valuable as these qualities are though, they are not always the best approach – when it comes to emotional support or advice in dealing with matters of the heart, INTPs are at a loss.

It’s not that INTP personalities don’t feel – quite the contrary, they actually have very strong sentiments. But Feeling (F) is one of INTPs’ least developed traits, making their emotional reactions strong, untrustworthy and naturally in need of being tempered by their well-trained logic and rationalism. Still waters run deep.

...But When in Friendship, Continue Firm and Constant

While they may not be able to help directly with these sorts of problems, INTPs help indirectly with unambiguous and reliable friendships. INTPs’ friends need never worry about power games or emotional baggage – they are liked for their minds and abilities, not their status or possessions. While it may not be easy to establish true friendships with INTP personalities, once the link is made, they will provide years of understanding and thought-stimulating ideas, making them well worth the effort.

Kaitlan
1 year ago
Haha, my friend is an INTP, I'm an INFJ and he's really funny. Happy to have him as a friend
A dude
1 year ago
If you want to talk about celebrities, make sure I'm not there. Jesus people are so boring when they talk about"ER MER GERD araiana whatever's new song is out and has whatever million views"
1 year ago
I read celebrities, I must stop reading. Just joking. One of my best friends I actually met by randomly talking to her about my ideas for a book. Hey- SHE RESPONDED BACK. It was amazing. I'm just rather upset that we had to part ways...
Anonymous
1 year ago
I need a T Shirt that says " Don't talk to INTPs about celebrities "
An INTP
1 year ago
I do too. Fashion models drive me nuts!
CatTheFanatic
1 year ago
"Don't talk about celebrities" This advice should apply to everything. Except, when people around you will not shut up about the constant celebrities. Except, I have a lot of YouTubers that I love to watch, and I feel pretty passionate (say you have a friend who gets annoyed that you sided with a certain PewDiePie) and sometimes defensive and probably mean about it. I don't know why. And another point. I now think I understand a bit more why I hate explaining things, why people can't understand my amazing humour, or my puns. (Is-it-up-dog. PFFFFT)
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