INTP Friends

Many of the usual motivations for making friends – emotional support, social validation, shared routine – simply don’t apply to INTPs. More likely, these concepts are met with disdain, as people with the INTP personality type prize intellectual depth above all else. It is not easy to become good friends with INTPs, but if there is a common interest and a common train of thought, the connection is likely to spark instantly, surprising everyone else who thought they had this distant personality type pegged.

INTP friends

Be Slow to Fall Into Friendship...

INTP friendships are knowledge-based, defined by the exchange of ideas, theories, and concepts, and those who aren’t able to keep up with this, or who have sharply differing tastes (don’t talk to INTPs about celebrities) will find stony faces that border on rude. To INTPs, communication is often more of a nuisance than a pleasure, and conversation is reserved for topics that they find meaningful, or for people they already like enough to stick it out.

Unless there’s a natural affinity for this intellectual style, few have the patience to try to penetrate their shields, and INTPs are left with a naturally small circle of good friends.

Other Analyst types are a natural fit for INTPs, who share their passion for new ideas, riddles and solutions. People with the INTP personality type are knowledgeable and intelligent, and have a great deal of respect for those who can keep them on their toes in this regard. They will gladly help to tackle any dilemma thrown their way, offering up sound advice and rational solutions. As valuable as these qualities are though, they are not always the best approach – when it comes to emotional support or advice in dealing with matters of the heart, INTPs are at a loss.

It’s not that INTP personalities don’t feel – quite the contrary, they actually have very strong sentiments. But Feeling (F) is one of INTPs’ least developed traits, making their emotional reactions strong, untrustworthy and naturally in need of being tempered by their well-trained logic and rationalism. Still waters run deep.

...But When in Friendship, Continue Firm and Constant

While they may not be able to help directly with these sorts of problems, INTPs help indirectly with unambiguous and reliable friendships. INTPs’ friends need never worry about power games or emotional baggage – they are liked for their minds and abilities, not their status or possessions. While it may not be easy to establish true friendships with INTP personalities, once the link is made, they will provide years of understanding and thought-stimulating ideas, making them well worth the effort.

4 weeks ago
I feel guilty. We have very few family friends. Now I know who's the reason.
1 month ago
Wow... Extremely accurate! I loved that little detail "don't talk to Logicians about celebrities" :P so I'm not the only person in this world who doesn't care about other people's live... Good to know
3 weeks ago
Sameee ヽ(^。^)丿
5 months ago
I was doubtful of this quiz's accuracy until I read the mention of celebrities. I have no idea how people would want to make their lives similar to those who are well-known. From how I think, everybody should want to make themselves unique. I guess I'll have to adapt to see it otherwise.
6 months ago
My INTP friend and I met when she posted a review on one of my fanfics, pointing out something that didn't make sense in the story; at the time, I was still a bit new to writing and much more sensitive to criticism than I'm now, so I sent her an irritated reply with the implied tone of "go away if you're not going to compliment me". (I'm just rolling my eyes at my former self right now.) She didn't review again for several chapters, so I thought she was gone, but then she came back at around Chapter 12 or 13 or so, and I was like, "Oh, please, it's you again?" (Rest assured, it was all uphill from then on. XD)
7 months ago
I'm an INTP and my two closest friends are an ENTP and another INTP. They've been friends for almost ten years, and I love to mediate their debates, although I guess I'm biased towards the INTP (Of course!). I never thought one of my friends would be of my same personality type, but now that I think about it, it makes perfect sense. Even though we're friends now, we wouldn't have grown close if it weren't for the ENTP, who drew us together. Extroverts can be overwhelming at times for us introverts, but either way my friends are extroverts most of the times because they are the ones who keep the conversation going, care about checking in with me (while I, on the other hand, need a push to check in with anyone), and usually are the ones who initiate contact.
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