ENTP Relationships

If there’s one thing ENTPs are good at, it’s coming up with a never-ending stream of innovations and ideas to keep things moving forward, and this is evident in their romantic relationships as well. For people with the ENTP personality type growth is key, and even before they’ve found a dating partner, they imagine all the ways that they can experience new things together, to grow in tandem. This can be an overwhelming process if their partner doesn’t match up, but when ENTPs find someone who shares their love of intellectual exploration, watch out.

Show Me a Satisfied Man, and I’ll Show You a Failure

From the earliest dates, ENTPs test their partners’ limits for this kind of potential, pushing boundaries and traditions, looking for open-mindedness and spontaneity. Dating ENTP personalities is hardly a boring experience, and they make use of their enthusiasm and creativity by delighting and surprising their partners with new ideas and experiences.

ENTP romantic relationships

ENTPs’ idea of fun is often rooted in self-improvement, and people with this personality type bring their partners along the way, as much in a spirit of sharing as in a spirit of expectation. ENTPs see either growth or stagnation and don’t buy into the idea of a happy status quo, making them demanding as much as they are exciting.

Some may tire in the face of this constant improvement – while ENTPs’ vigor can be attractive, it can also wear down even the most patient partners. A little time to breathe and a chance to rest on one’s laurels for a moment is necessary for many people, but not something ENTPs are likely to appreciate. However, if their unwavering enthusiasm is met in kind, it can lead to a magnificent relationship characterized by its strength, depth, and spark.

Genius Is One Percent Inspiration and Ninety-Nine Percent Perspiration

This is perhaps most evident as ENTPs’ relationships progress into more intimate situations. All that exploratory curiosity and enthusiasm has a chance to be expressed in new ways when ENTPs and their partners come together, and they readily encourage their partners to try new things, to enjoy their intimacy without preconceived limitations.

For people with the ENTP personality type, this phase of their relationships is a chance to improve and develop in areas that are outside the realm of academia, though they approach it in much the same way – as a physical and intellectual process of striving towards excellence, rather than a spiritual or emotional expression of affection.

ENTPs’ desire to improve in this department makes them fantastic partners when the relationship reaches that point, but their attitude towards this process is also evidence of their most glaring shortcoming – their emotional obliviousness. While ENTPs are more open-minded than other Analysts about others’ perspectives, they are also more likely to express their disdain for such things as emotional sensitivity in cuttingly well-phrased and clear terms, easily hurting their partners’ feelings without realizing it. ENTP personalities may even ignore their partners’ feelings altogether, instead immersing themselves entirely in some distant idea or opportunity, inaccessible.

Where ENTPs’ unwavering desire for self-improvement comes in most handy is in their emotional development, as they may actually be willing to work on areas such as sensitivity and emotional communication with their partners.

As with other Intuitive (N) types, ENTPs’ best compatibility rests with other Intuitives, with one or two opposing traits which help to create both balance and opportunities for growth. If they are with a more sensitive partner, this can be an excellent way for them to find another quality that they can work on together, making this weakness yet another opportunity to be creative, challenge themselves, and to deepen the attractiveness that this sense of progression brings to their relationships.

Anonymous
3 years ago
So true! So many people see introverts as lifeless, no-fun people, but we just hide it really well! It's so funny how attracted to humor and social confidence I am, considering I'm an introvert. But honestly, I love adventure and I'm hopelessly curious--and always laughing, when I'm COMFORTABLE. (comfortable being the key word there, if you didn't catch that.) Maybe I am great when I'm alone, but that doesn't mean I hate the world!
Felicity Neale
3 years ago
I'm a female INFJ, and although I find that guy in the photo very sexually attractive, and think ENTPs sound like fun people, there is no way on this earth I would ever subject myself to a romantic relationship with an ENTP. Matching INFJs with ENTPs seem bizarre. Good friendship only!
Jake
3 years ago
Thank you, it does wonders for a performer to get positive feedback.
Jake
3 years ago
Theoretically, INFJ would be perfect. In practice, however, things may change dramatically, depending on the ideas, morals, and standards that people have. The quickest way to get on my good side is to be an open ear to their ideas, and generally to agree. A liberal INFJ and a conservative ENTP relationship is almost guaranteed to fail. You have to speak up to an ENTP. Chances are, they'll adjust and apologize. I know for a fact that if my ISFP girlfriend had talked to me instead of just dumping me, I would have made the proper changes to accommodate her feelings. While we do love to debate, we also look at things from other perspectives. It all ties together. Speak up, we look at it your way, we change. (speaking on a general basis) Does it still seem bizarre? Does it at least make more sense now?
JoeAnonymous
3 years ago
You made me laugh just saying that, I wish you luck on your journey to be a comedian! When talking to other entp's I feel OPEN in the full, in a way that any topic of convocation is excepted, no matter who what where when and how.
Jake
3 years ago
I am ENTP. While just at a glance, I seem like a know-it-all intellectual, I'm actually a rather odd fellow, whose sharp wit can bring anyone to tears, laughing. (Which is fortunate, because I'm not much to look at...) And while I enjoy a good bout of mental combat, I really like to make people laugh. My lifetime goal is to be a comedian. My current goal is to make someone spit milk out their nose or something like that because they were laughing.
Evangeline
3 years ago
I've always had a thing for ENTP's, especially as fictional characters (e.g. Eugene Best-Disney-Prince-Ever Fitzherbert, Jack Sparrow, and Jim Halpert from The Office). Their sense of humor, spontaneity, and penchant for adventure are what make us INFJ girls squee inside--as well as draw our deeply-hidden fun, sarcastic self out of its shell of introverted seriousness. Just to let you ENTPs know, you're pretty cool!
cheru chan
3 years ago
so basically, this says im a logical trouble maker.
Meredith
3 years ago
Very true. I (an INTJ female) have an ENTP boyfriend and one thing I've especially noticed is that he is always looking to improve the relationship, especially by trying new things. I'd agree that we're compatible, and being an introvert myself, it's nice to have someone to hide behind at (God forbid) a social event. A little exhausting at times, but ENTPs, you people are quite romantic.
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